A garden is usually vibrant in color — even simple whites pop against lively green leaves like lilies of the valley. But, have you noticed the greys? Dusty miller wears yellow flowers while lamb’s ears show off pinkish-purple spikes. There is no “all or nothing.” Like life. Like the Tao.
Look closer at that familiar symbol for yin-yang. It is often identified as positive/negative, dark/light, female/male, etc., etc., yet in reality that is not entirely true. There is more to it. Like life. Like Tao.
In my busyness, I thought this symbol meant opposites. But, in waking up, I see the 2 small dots of opposing colors within each section. There is no complete 50/50, black/white, one or the other. Each has some of the other, and each needs the other to become whole. Life, for me, looked different then.
And the garden continues teaching me. About life. About Tao. Rain can nourish or flood…beautiful flowers can produce allergens… bees can pollinate and sting! Day turns to night, perennials bloom and die then return next year, the sun casts shadows (yin is for shade, yang is for sun). Everything is inter-related. Look at the white sunlight that produces the varied colors in a rainbow. There is so much to life, so much in between; it’s not all grey.