Rain clouds
help flowers grow.
Why should life experiences be any different?
Learning through Grief
I began this post before the untimely loss of my best friend — Bess my beloved 14 1/3 year old border collie. Acceptance soothes my broken heart when acknowledging this will happen to each and everyone of us and everyone we love, that this behest of time is a transformation of life. I continue learning through my loss of Bess…such as doing what I can then letting go, and the power of thought and perspective. I anticipate sharing more from time to time on insights gained through this experience…
“All of life’s experiences are to be either enjoyed or learned from.”
— Alan Cohen
Bess gave me both.
I am curious to know how you process grief. A sage shared this short (18 minute) video with me. Hopefully, you will benefit as well — not just in a time of need.
wRighTing My Life 
Absolutely. All things great and small. ❤️
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Sounds like you are a pet lover too.
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I know, it’s so hard. They give so much love and it’s unconditional.
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Thank you. She was such a significant part of my life, I never dreamed she would not be here when I returned. All the more reason to appreciate every moment of our lives.
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I am so sorry you lost your pal, especially being away when it happened. It’s so good that you can express your grief and share what she meant to you. ❤
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I agree. It’s not right or fair.
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Thank you, Cheryl. They do bring so much joy into our lives, I don’t know if I will ever understand why their lifespan is so short compared to ours.
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I’ve shared my experience of losing a beloved furry family member. It still stings, but at least now we can remember and laugh about his quirky personality and funny things he did like sling water everywhere after a bath. Feel what you feel. 💚
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Yes, I have come to understand over the years, and much through the Tao, that death is indeed just another part of the circle of life and, therefore, more of a transformation than finality. Still, I cannot say my heart does not ache as Bess and I shared so much together…but it eases with time and as I shift my focus from loss to the joy she gave me.
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Nothing about life is permanent. You must go through all the stages of grief. But knowing death is just a part of the circle of life, can help deal with death.
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